The Lady is Perfect

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The strength of a woman lies in her womanhood. Her gracefulness, humility, self sacrifice, care, love, respect, decency, sweet tone, physical weakness, her smile, cheerfulness, brokenness, sincere tears and emotions, love and service to God.

It is confusion and misplacement of priority for a woman to want to act like or compete with a man. She is perfect in her elements, designed to fulfill purpose in her own uniqueness.

Do not assume the position of a man, it is a waste of productive energy trying to assume the position of a man. Know your place. If you want to be a man, the society will treat you as one and it will be tiring, it will wear you out.

You are fearfully and wonderfully made, I adore and honour you as you are, there is no competition but complementation.

Real men respect women.

By: Raphael Donanu

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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