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Success in marriage is much more than a matter of finding the right person; it is also a matter of being the right person (Leland Foster Wood) Cooperativeeness in conversation is achieved when you show that you consider the other person's ideas and feelings as important as your own. Starting your conversation by giving the other person the purpose or direction of your conversation, governing what you say by what you would want to hear if you were the listener, and accepting his or her viewpoint will encourage the listener to have an open mind to your ideas (Gerald S. Nirenberg) The average person can be led readily if you have his or her respect and if you show that you respect that person for some kind of ability (Samuel Vauclain) The first thing to learn in intercourse with others is non interference with their own peculiar ways of being happy, provided those ways do not assume to interfere by violence with ours (Henry James) Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In th...

The Quotes today is credited to Nana Kwame Amissah. The Quotes: • Life is very short, so break your egos, forgive quickly, love truly, laugh loudly and never avoid anything that makes you smile. • If you don't see your worth, you will always choose people who don't see it either. When your self esteem rises, your life follows. • Love is a gift from God, and as we obey His laws and genuinely learn to serve others, we develop God's love in our lives. Love of God is the means of unlocking divine powers which help us to live worthily and to overcome the world. If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself. Love your neighbor as you love yourself. • A meaningful life is not being rich or popular but being highly educated, being real, honest, kind, respectful, good and humble. And being able to share ourselves and touch th...

The Relationship Quotes today, is credited to Svelte Bintu Eniola Bolarinwa. The Quotes: • You don't need religion in your relationship to have morals, if you can't determine your right from your wrongs. Then you lack empathy not religion. • You have been in that relationship for long or you have gone too deep in that relationship should never be a reason to stay as long as it doesn't look promising. Don't put your self in a SITUATION-ship. • Whatever affects your relationship with God, has little or no chances of survival.. "Only believers would understand this". • No matter what goes on in your relationship he/she well-being should come first. Don't be too angry to care for or call each other. Also to our families and loved ones. • When your Bae stops complaining about your numerous flaws or shortcomings, then he/she might just be moving on consciously or unconsciously and mostly it's without You. Don't get too comfortable when they begin to...

The Relationship Quotes today, is credited to Musa Gift. Musa Gift is a popular contributor on this library. He's a Relationship Coach. The Quotes: • It is better to be Single and Praying to be Married than Married and Praying to be Single. DON'T BE IN A HURRY! • Your Love for them is not enough to finance the Building of a Successful Relationship. It takes two to make it work. DON'T FORCE IT! • God's intention for you is not a life time Courtship, but a life time Marriage. Don't settle in a Relationship that takes everything from You and doesn't give You Commitment. God doesn't need You to date for seven years before He says You can marry them. • Without Communication, there is no Relationship. Without Respect, there is no Love. And without Trust, there is no reason to do it! • Real Men don't express interest if they are not interested. You don't need to play with a lady's heart/emotions to prove yourself. • When they tell you: "Yo...

People may not always tell You how they feel about You, but they will always show You. Pay attention (Kim Garst) You stop attracting certain people once You heal the parts of You that once needed them (Quote) Self-Esteem begins and ends with You. The more You know about yourself, the less moved you'll be by the opinions of others (B. Dilley) If you are fake, then everything around You will be fake. Be who You are, and let the world around You adjust (Bryant McGill)

The Relationship Quotes is credited to Kelly Chisom Amadi The Quotes: • I want you, in a minute to think about loosing him or her. If you aren't scared, and concerned, there's an issue somewhere. • Unfaithfulness becomes an issue when you accept it as part of you. Falling doesn't make you a failure. Accepting defeat does! • A woman in Love is very content they never ask more than you can provide. If you're wise you'd know they deserve the entire world. • Don't let friends push you into making choices you may regret. If you don't like him, let it be because of something real, not just because your girls said so. If they're gonna have to discourage, then it had better be something worthy of consideration. You've got a mind of your own, stop letting friends run your life. • I know we face different demons and our challenges are unique to us. And we have every reason not to care about anyone else. But remember how much you wish someone could just ...

• When you are in a relationship, never go to bed angry. • I love being the reason for your smile. • Never forget to tell her how good she looks every day. Even on the days where she isn’t wearing makeup and her hair isn’t done. • We all deserve someone who loves us even when we are not at our best. • You know you are in a real relationship when your presence and absence both mean something to that person. • Find someone who makes you a better person. • I am a better person because of you. You help me be the best person that I can be and you always encourage me to reach my full potential. • When you are in a real relationship, you never have to pretend to be someone that you’re not. • When you get a little jealous, at least it means that you care enough about that person. • Take my hand and we can get through anything together.

The Quotes today, is credited to Uchenna Ilo. The Quotes: • If you still feel lonely and unhappy when you're alone, that means you still have some more self-loving to do. • Don't be afraid of losing people. Be afraid of losing yourself trying to please people who may not even want the best for you. • Many misunderstandings arise because we think we know what is in somebody's mind. • The secret wisdom of attraction is learning how to be attached and non-attached at the same time. • Don't judge someone by how they look, what they do, where you met them, what they have, and/or where they are in life at present. If you really want to know someone, find out about their past, where they are coming from, what they have been through, why they are where they are now, and what dreams they have for their future. You would be surprised that inside someone who looks 'dirty', could be the diamond you have been searching for all your life. • I need your love not your ju...

No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite (Nelson Mandela) Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Choose wisely (Vala Afshar) Start telling the truth now and never stop. Begin by telling the truth to yourself about yourself. Then tell the truth to yourself about someone else. Then tell the truth about yourself to another. Then tell the truth about another to that other. Finally, tell the truth to everyone about everything. These are the 5 levels of truth telling. This is the five-fold path to freedom (Neale Donald Walsch) You can’t live a brave life without disappointing some people. Stop being an Avenue for other people’s dreams (Maxine Tomlinson) Dialogue is a gift to help work through i...

The Relationship Quotes today, is credited to TJ William. TJ William is the Team Lead and Content Specialist at REAPERZEDGE. The Quotes: • An encouraging call or text to someone this evening can be the little candle that can illuminate their world. • Sometimes our responses to our partner's shortcomings are worse than the shortcomings themselves. • When Misunderstandings are not resolved, relationships deteriorate. • Even with the LORD as the FOUNDATION, MARRIAGE takes EFFORT. • People are lonely because they build WALLS instead of BRIDGES. • Looking out for each other should be a shared Responsibility. TJ William

One of the Greatest Happiness we can have in life is the conviction that we are Loved – Loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves (Victor Hugo) We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is ...

The Relationship Quotes today, is credited to Uchenna Ilo. The Quotes: • Be with Someone who wants to help You learn how to Love yourself. • Just because You fell in Love with the wrong person who taught You a life lesson doesn't mean You should give up on Love. • Just because You have loved the wrong people in the past doesn't mean You should stop trusting people. • We enter relationships to fulfil our highest potential and not because we are lonely. Be careful who You choose. • Your soulmate cannot be jealous of You because they don't need You to be happy; they are content with their own company. Uchenna Ilo

Being a woman and having a vagina comes with a huge responsibility. This responsibility lies right there inside of you. It's in your uterus (womb). The feminine power is about controlling two very important decisions in your life: – When you get pregnant, and; – Who you allow to father your children. These two decisions are completely under Your Control . (Eze Victor Obinna) There's always this one woman you can still take out and have maximum fun even when you're broke. Trust me, If She isn't the one you're building that future with.. You're heading for a shipwreck! (Kelly Chisom Amadi) I like maturity – like admitting where You went wrong, where I went wrong, where we went wrong, and working on it together for a better outcome. (Jude Onyekachukwu Igwe) Smiling is infectious, You catch it like flu. When Someone smiled at me today, I started smiling too. I passed around the corner and someone saw my grin, and when she smiled I realized, I passed it...

Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude (William James) For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone (Audrey Hepburn) As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is de...

The Quotes today, features quotes credited to a friend, Kelly Chisom Amadi. The Quotes: • We would have a better world if only you stop chasing benefits and determine to build that relationship on LOVE and understanding. • Be open to learn and unlearn.. "Loving" works like apps. You gotta keep it updated. • As you treat one like your Queen, don't forget others are Queens too, just not yours. They deserve respect also. • Once in a while spend time, cook up a heart warming text. And forward it to his SMS box. Spend your credit to send it over to him. Not every time social media messages. You have no idea how these small things matter! • All you had to do was talk with a calm tone. Most times, we just had to do little things to have achieved the greatest results. • No matter how sweet a relationship is, there will be hard times. When they come, remember your promises. Strive to keep them. Kelly Chisom Amadi

I will share some relationship quotes, credited to Musa Gift (MG) The Quotes: • It is foolishness not to pick an interest in your Spouse's hobby. • Marry Well: Both of you will be living together ✔️✔️✔️ Mismarry: Both of you will be dying together ❌❌❌ • A Relationship is more likely to be Real, based on genuine feelings and also more likely to last the test of time if both parties are able to express both positive and negative feelings freely without being reprimanded for doing so, than one where they are completely nice and courteous to each other at all times, in which case pretence and fear are most likely to be in operation... • Ladies, men also love memorable moments. Plan and do something memorable for your Spouse too. We self , we be human being oh • You don't find your worth in another, you find your worth within yourself, and then find someone who's worthy of you. • If you are Single, focus on becoming a better you daily, not just on getting a better...

You are the love you are seeking. Stop betraying yourself for the love of others (Blake d'Bauer) Beauty is not a guarantee to marriage (Helen Mars) “I love you” means that I accept you for the person that you are and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for me (Jonathan Safran Foer) If a man/woman can't bring you peace then nothing else they bri...

The Relationship Quotes today, is credited to Uchenna Ilo, a Writer and Author, whose mission is about bringing more love to lives. The Quotes: • You can love somebody and still not be compatible with the person for a long-term relationship. Know when to let go. • All she ever wanted was to be appreciated and loved back in return. She is tired of feeling invisible. • Be with someone worth growing with. • Her Greatest asset will never be anything physical. • Some people get so used to abuse in relationships that they start to believe that's the normal way they should be loved. • Tell someone how much you really love and appreciate their presence in your life. Don't expect them to know. Uchenna Ilo

The soul attracts that which it secretly harbors; that which it loves, and also that which it fears (James Allen) You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you (Dale Carnegie) Nobody can hurt me without my permission (Mahatma Gandhi) We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics (Joyce Meyer) The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most (Dale Carnegie)

The Relationship Quotes today, is credited to Nana Kwame Amissah. The Quotes: • I intend to spend quality time with my children to make them feel loved, worthy and build their self-esteem up so they go out into the world with confidence, courage and boldness to conquer the world. • Girls compete with each other. Women empower one another. • A Real woman is not like the doorknob where everyone gets a turn. She is more like a casino where only the lucky ones hit the jackpot. • The wrong person will give You less than what You are worth but that doesn't mean that You have to accept it. • I cannot waste my time getting hurt by someone when there's someone else out there waiting to make me happy. Nana Kwame Amissah