When To Be Silent

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Be silent when you are tempted to joke about sin. (Prov 14:9)

Be silent when you haven't verified the story. (Deuteronomy 17:6)

Be silent when it's time to listen. (Proverbs 13:1)

Be silent if you can't say it without screaming. (Proverbs 25:8)

Be silent if you will be ashamed of your words later. (Proverbs 8:8)

Be silent if the issue is none of your business. (Proverbs 14:10)

Be silent if your words will damage someone else reputation. (Prov 16:27)

Whoever guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from troubles. (Proverbs 21:23)

By: Maria Ugochi

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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