What Exactly Do We Do In Relationships?

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"HELP! I am 25years old. Before I married my husband, he used to bring all sought of cars to visit me in my house and when I asked the job he does, he told me that he is a car dealer. Just three months after our marriage, I got to know that he works at a car washing bay".

So for 25 years on earth even after wasting four years on campus to be confirmed a graduate, someone can still be operating at this level of foolishness, in this modern time?

What exactly do we do in relationships?

Aside sex, money, gifts and outings. What do we really define relationship to be? Why won't marriages continue to fail when major priorities are been neglected?

Ladies and Gentlemen hear me, so long as are we only interested for that momentary gifts that's never enough even after gathering from different sources, our joy in relationships can never be actualized! Forget it, no prayers.

"Any Friendship Without An Exchange Of Impact is Equal to Fendship" – Evans Chima W.

So face it! Seek to develop yourself. Go to school but never trust in certificates if you want to satisfy your life on earth. Instead spend more time developing your common sense than banging grades that degrades your life.

Define what you want and be sensitive enough to recognise it when it comes.

God bless You.

By: Welekwe Evans

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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