Little Things That Matters
Today, I will share with you simple but amazing ways to show your affection to your lady. Some may seem unconventional to you, but you will find them interesting.
The list is a long one, so I have decided to break the contents into two parts.
I have had to learn some of these the hard way, and for some good reasons, I am yet to practice a few (at the end of the post you will understand better). The content of this post could help us (guys) to be alleviated from a cultural or self conceited ignorance.
Yes, we are all ignorant of certain knowledge. An expert horse rider will like be a novice if given a formula 1 sports car to drive for the first time. Even if he has always driven other usual cars, he will need some good tutoring and monitoring to perform this task.
So here are 16 little acts you can consider engaging in that have potential for great impact in your relationship.
I will list them in the ladies voice, so match each with corresponding action.
1. I love a man who really listens to me.
2. I love a man who values my opinion.
3. I love a man who calls me pet names.
For singles dating or courting, now is a good time to start. Don't go and do "mummy" and "daddy" or "Mama Nkechi" and "Papa Nkechi" after your marriage biko.
4. I love a man who puts his arms around my shoulders and says I love.
5. I love a man who has good hygiene (Please let the sister feel comfortable when you speak around her or raise your arms up).
6. I love a man who is strong yet sensitive (Know when to push her to pursue her goals and when to pet her).
7. I love a man who prays with me.
8. I love a man who notices and appreciates my new hairdo. (Bros, even if the hair no too fine, just try and notice the new hair and give a fair compliment).
9. I love a man who has a good sense of humor ( Make her laugh, she likes it).
10. I love a man who makes me feel accepted.
11. I love a man who loves surprises – both for me and for him.
12. I love a man who remembers special events like birthday, wedding, anniversaries, holidays.
13. I love a man who shares his future plans with me.
14. I love a man who affirms me in front of friends.
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15. I love a man who will massage my feet.
16. I love a man who helps me make our bed.
And hey, did you notice the spacing before numbers 15 and 16? That was intentional.
Why?
It is meant for married folks only!
If you are married, you may want to add these to the list as well:
17. I love a man who helps me with house keeping chores.
18. I love a man when he comes up to me and wants a kiss for no just reason.
19. I love a man who encourages me to have good friends.
20. I love a man who asks me if there is something I need when he runs his errands.
Different things appeal to different ladies, you may want to try your hands on different acts on the list. Monitor your feedback, the one that brings her more happiness should be prioritized.
Are you a lady reading this? Will you be kind to drop other little acts that mean a lot to you? Use the comment Box.
For my brothers, I have got you covered. I will advocate for those little things that mean a lot to you in my future posts.
Look out for the Part 2 of "Small Acts that Matter" by next week Friday God willing.
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Your Progress is my Priority.
T.J William
Sapient Advisor
#HeartGist©2017
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