Think Generational Blessing

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You see that thing you call Generational Curse???

It is more "mental" than it is "diabolical".

Just as offsprings inherit some disease conditions from their parents after an intercourse, so your children inherit limitations unknown to you, when you share that limiting belief story – When you mostly share the hard part of situations with them all in the bid for you to help them develop "character";  when you are always against them taking risk; when you impose the dream in your head on them without giving room for their passion; when you use all manner of negative words on them especially when they make mistakes all in the name of "Correction".

Yeah.... that is when they are really cursed generationally.

Most importantly when you give all your Golden most treasured all important advice to them only from the context of the olden times, culture or religion (though very important) without a look at the contemporary times... Yeah.., that is when they are really cursed generationally.

Just as you always think generational curses, please you can be a Generational Blessing to your children and community when you do the reverse of the above.

2018 is here... Break every yoke...

It is your year of "BREAKING LIMITS".

By: Nonso Kingsley Nwosu

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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