Stop living by the calendar and Start living by Purpose

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Stop making new year resolutions. Start becoming self aware instead. Embrace who you are and create greatness out of it. Stop living by the calendar and start living by purpose.

Stop comparing yourself to someone else. Such exercise only demeans the fundamental fabric that makes you a special human.

Stop second guessing your capabilities. You are scared of taking that bold step because you think that your friends and family members will laugh at you with scornful jocularity. That is total crap. Stop making excuses because no one fucking cares. You're not DOING because you are so full of shit.

Stop evaluating your ideals from the opinions of others towards you because people's perspectives about you can never go beyond the perimeter and boundaries of their own imagination.

Be responsible!
Hold yourself accountable!
Own yourself and be decisive. Be deliberate! Be fucking intentional about life.
Demystify thoughts like "What if I fail?"
start cultivating thoughts like "What if I succeed?"
Choose to rather take a huge bite and choke on the pie of greatness than nibble around the paradise of perpetual mediocrity.

Let there be light!

By: Ndubueze Endie Umunna

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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