Enough with the speculations and undue pressure!

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If two people have not come out to tell you they're dating, it is either because they're not dating or they're not ready to have their relationship out in the public.

Whatever their reasons, respect the fact that they've not told you they're together, and leave them the heck alone.

Enough with the speculations and undue pressure!

Not all close friends must be in love with each other. Two people can love and appreciate themselves without dating. Let's stop forcing people to see a romantic relationship in every friendship.

Two people dating may not think their relationship is ready for public attention. Leave them alone. Don't pressure them into doing what they're not yet ready for.

I know this is not an ideal Sunday morning message but it's been on my mind to say it. You are not TMZ. Mind your own darn business! Let people be please.

By: Akuma Solomon

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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