Learn the Lesson

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If you haven't fully healed from the breakup of your last relationship, stay away from any further relationships until you have learned the lessons. Learning the lesson is about stripping yourself naked, looking in the mirror, and then uncovering and deconstructing the internal toxicity that decomposed your relationship. There is something negative about your nature that you are not aware of. There is something within your vibration that attracts toxicity and incompatibility in people. This meditative process is best under the conditions of solitude but must be preceded by an honest acceptance of your weaknesses. Recognise your programming. All of us have been conditioned. Love is not attachment. Love is freedom. Love is a spiritual connection.

Uchenna Ilo

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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