I Don't Want To Be Bitter

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"Oh Lord, I will hold tight to my love and not let go. I will throw away all the cruel words flung at me. I will cast away anger and hurt and despair. I won't think on the false accusations, the slights, the long silences, and the rejection. I will think about You." (Francine Rivers)

This is exactly my prayer. I don't want to be bitter

Akuma Solomon

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