Dear Single and Searching Bachelor

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Proverbs 31:29: "Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all."

Dear single and searching bachelor;

When looking for a wife, as you look at physical beauty, please don't forget to:

- look for a lady who prays for and with you

- one who will encourage you when you feel discouraged

- one who will efficiently manage your thousands and your millions

- one who can plan and reason with and for you

- one who knows you completely and accepts you, strengths and weaknesses together

- one who understands who you are, what you stand for and do, and is in with you for the long haul

- one who can spend and create wealth with you

- one who can cheer and inspire you to great heights

- one who can work and play

- one who is matured.

Whatever you do, marry a woman, not a girl. There's a difference - same gender, different breed.

- one who will speak to the "King" in you

- one who is a Queen

And most importantly, be the man who truly deserves this woman.

Let's talk the frank talk.

Musa Gift (MG)
Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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