Value yourself more, be less dependent on things and other persons

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Dear Lady, please be useful in life. Serve God, get busy, improve your talents, acquire a skill, go to school if you get the opportunity to.
Don't let yourself be dependent on people or things. What will happen to you when those people or things are no longer there? You will be stuck, frustrated, suicidal and you might decide to wallow in the chaos because your life has been spent dependent on things and people.

Learn to be happy, because only a lady who loves herself and is happy can actually spread love and happiness as You can't give what you don't have.
Improve on all the God given gifts and talents that you've got. The gift of a man (woman) maketh a room for him (her).
Don't let anyone make you dump your life and live a wasted life.

Beverly Miebaka Emberru

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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