Be the Boss

Her: I cannot marry a man who does not have a car, or his own house.

Me: Do you have a Car?

Her: No.

Me: Do you have a house?

Her: No.

Me: We too, we cannot marry a woman that does not have a car, or her own house.

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Who ever told us that it is the man who should make the money, while the lady spends the money?
Who ever told us that the lady must depend on a man to be financially fulfilled in life, who?
This mentality has made many ladies lazy, and under productive, many are performing below their real potential because they have been told that it's the man's sole responsibility to provide for the home, making ladies look like commodities, paid for, waiting for the highest bidder, which is quite a tragedy.

Funny how some ladies lower the standards for themselves and raise it up for men when it comes to marriage and providing financially, yet shout gender equality, of course I am not speaking against gender equality, I'm just saying.

You see a lady driving a Lexus Jeep 2017 model and everyone just assumes it must have been bought for her by her husband, why? That's nonsense, but we caused it.
Besides, even from the Scripture, no where is it stated that the man must be the sole provider of the home.

While some ladies are focused on finding a rich husband, others are focused on being a rich wife.
While many single ladies are looking for a man to provide for them, many others are providing for themselves.

I celebrate every single lady out there seriously hustling, sleeping late and waking up early just to make it big in life without staying idly, waiting for any man to come and put food on their table or cash in their hands.
You are the reason men like me don't ask, "what do women bring to the table?", because we see you bought the table itself.

PS: I am not saying marry a financially handicapped unserious nonentity. Don't try that. But hustle for Yourself, work hard, be your best, be independent, and if you must be dependent, let it not be of necessity but by choice.
WANT a rich husband, don't NEED a rich husband.
My money is different from and more reliable than Our money.
MarryWell.

Musa Gift (MG)