Giving a Positive meaning to the WHY

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To learn, unlearn and relearn is a great path to personal growth. The room was packed with "hungry folks" as the music played and men reminiscent through their yonder days. Step by step, the mind travelled back to where it all began. The events that shaped us unveiled.
We reached out to the files, dusted them and gave a positive meaning to every snap shot captured.

You see, nobody is really bad, people just do bad things.

Ted Bundy was known to all who knew him as a charming man. He was a volunteer at a suicide hotline and a college graduate. However, he was executed for the murder of 40 women in the '80s.
Poland's famous serial killer Karl Denke was an active member of his community and even was an organist in church. Hmmm!!!

People do what they do because of what they have been exposed to.
People do the best they can with what they know.
When you see people behave the way they do, be rest assured that the innocent mind has captured some snap shots and has given meaning to it. The meaning given to every event determines how we react to issues in the future.

Nothing really means anything except the one we give to it.

So this young woman shared how phobia for men became her thing because mum dissociated her from relating with others, especially boys.. "Men are wicked" mum said. So she grows up suspecting men.
The young man also related how he rarely spoke out, because he was always talked down during childhood.

You have come this far in life with the best tools you think you have. You want more? .... Reach out for better tools.
Here is the thing.....
Reach out graciously to your files and get the reason why you do what you do, the events that shaped that anger, hatred, excitement, care, etcetera.
Give it a positive meaning.
Let's flow from there.

Ekwe Chijioke

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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