Loyalty to the Past

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"The past is a nice place to visit but never a great place to stay".

We all are where we are today because of our past decisions and actions. Our present is a factual reflection of how great our past was. We all have past, filled with different experience. Our past is always on the increase while our future on decrease. We all dream of a greater and better future but we are still loyal to our past.

We can't create the future of our dream with the same attitude, perspective, relationships and decisions that created our today. What brought us here, wouldn't take us there. We need to let go the gory of the past. Take the lessons from it and move on.

Ask yourself, Can I create the future I want with the same set of people I created today with?
Loyalty to the past lies in our decision to continue living the way we've been living, doing things the way we've always done it, thinking the way we've always thought, reacting instead of acting and staying where we've always stayed.

The more we live, the greater our past. The more of today wasted nursing the past, the more of tomorrow with regret. The more of today's loyalty to the future, the greater the blitheness of tomorrow.

The past can't hurt you anymore, unless you let it. Let the past be the stepping stones to a greater future.

By: Oladipupo Osofowora

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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