Same Procedures, Same Result!

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How about a boyfriend that will tell you to study?
Tell you to dress properly?
A boyfriend who will hold hands with you and declare Gods promises.
Who'll plan the future with you??
Who asks if you've eaten because he really cares not just because it's a regular question.
Who surprises you with reasonable gifts??
Who'll crackup their savings to buy you medications when you're sick?
Who would never speak to you in a manner unfit for a woman he claims to LOVE??

But no! You want guys with iPhones, nice cars, and nice Instagram pages who you have no idea how they struggle.

And you wonder why it never works..

Same procedure never gives a different result.

By: Kelly Chisom Amadi

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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