I Am, I Can, I Will, and that is All

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I have come to discover from personal experience, and from observation that a lot of how people perceive or relate with us depends on the way we relate with ourselves..

I have had cause to deal with persons who gave me too many reasons not to take them seriously, and I didn't, why should I?
And I have had cause to deal with people who I had no option but to take them serious, they gave me no option, these are people you just can't ignore or take lightly.
I have done things that I should not ordinarily have done based on certain criteria like age, and marital status, and people were okay with it, why? Because I myself see no reason why I can't, so they see no reason why I shouldn't.

People will only take you seriously if you take yourself seriously. As a rule, "PEOPLE WILL NEVER TAKE YOU MORE SERIOUSLY THAN YOU TAKE YOURSELF".

When You change the way You look at yourself, people will change the way they look at You.
When You change the way You think about yourself, people will change the way they think about You.

How do you expect people to believe in you, when you don't believe in yourself? How? You want to be a public speaker, a successful writer, a renown author, but you don't believe you can, and you expect people to believe you can? Who does that?

Jesus Christ said "to him that believe, all things are possible". God Almighty said, "and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do".
Remember Mohammed Ali's "I AM THE WORLD'S GREATEST"

When you go for job interviews, you get questions like, "how much will you like us to pay you?", "what are your strengths?", and the main one, "where do you see yourself in the next five years?" These questions are simply asked to see how you see yourself, how much faith you have in yourself, they want to see your worth through your own eyes, to see your dreams and the faith you have in them, and God help you if you misfire, you will not be employed, why? Greatness answers only to those who Know that they Deserve Greatness..

Have Faith in Yourself first. Others will follow. See yourself as a Champion first. Others will follow.

NEVER YOU LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, EVEN WHEN YOU FAIL. FAILURE IS NOT A PERSON, FAILURE IS AN EVENT.

How we react to you, is only a reply to, a replica and an imitation of how you react to Yourself.
When You start taking yourself serious, we will start taking you seriously.

By: Musa Gift (MG)

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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