A Commitment is a Commitment

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No matter how interesting and sweet your unmarried relationship is. You are single!
But that doesn't mean You should ride on that fact and break a commitment to Faithfulness, Respect, Love, and Trust.
Unmarried or not! There are terms and conditions to keeping a partner. And it's necessary they are kept unviolated.

So next time you think it's wise to make mistakes, hurt him/her and comfortably blame it on being unmarried, instead of taking responsibility and plead for forgiveness. You are wrong!

By: Kelly Chisom Amadi

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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