Nobody Owns Anybody

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If You connect one of your friends to another of your friends and they become closer to themselves than to You, do not become angry, jealous or envious. Maybe your role in the bigger picture was to be the bridge between them. Nobody can steal what is divinely meant for you and nobody owns anybody. Learn to love yourself and be confident in your greatness and destiny.

It can be painful and humiliating at times but we must learn to see the bigger picture and move on with humility. Their friendship may or may not be fruitful but it has nothing to do with You. Stop being needy and attaching yourself to people and things that are outside your soul. Rejoice for you are right where you should be. Move with grace and ease and keep spreading your Love wherever you go.

By: Uchenna Ilo

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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