Master the weakness

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For you to be successful and safe, you must take control of your weaknesses, master them, find strengths in them by converting those disadvantages into advantages.

What comes to your mind after reading the above? I could tell where your mind must have gone to. However, I'm going to relate that statement to an aspect of relationship.

We must be familiar with this statement: "Men are moved (attracted) by what they see; Ladies are moved (attracted) by what they hear"

Let me relate this to the first statement. Look at it this way:
For a man, "what he sees" is the weakness that needs to be mastered and converted into strength;
while for the Lady, "what she hears" is the weakness that needs control, and turned into an advantage.

If a man is dominated by this weakness, he will constantly not get satisfied with a lady. He'll be a confused one, with no direction, no focus as he'll be constantly getting attracted to a lot of attractive and beautiful ladies. Making a choice becomes a big challenge for him.
In the case of the Lady, she will be easily moved by the sweet words she hear, she will be easily carried away, deceived and distracted. Staying by a man will be a huge challenge.

What about converting these weaknesses to strengths? What about the man being attracted by what he hears as well as what he sees; and the Lady, by what she sees as well as what she hears?
Both should not let the weakness be a disadvantage.

Master your weakness, don't let it have you wrapped in unhealthy, unhappy relationships. Don't let it destroy your relationship life. Don't let it cause you to make wrong, unhealthy decisions. Don't let it cause you to hurt others and bring unhappiness to them. Don't let it bring unhappiness to you and add that sad, unsuccessful chapter to your life. Rise above that weakness!

Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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