Give what you want to Get

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Credit: Courage Nkem

We waste so much mental energy complaining of every other thing people are not doing right for us; so much that we forget to ask what we really are doing for these people. We are so righteous in our little eyes. This attitude will stop us from getting the happiness and love that we really deserve.

Instead of asking, show love, and treat others the same way you want to be treated. And if you still feel short of love, maybe you should spread more love because we can't get what we can't give.

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Welcome to the Blog. I love Positivity. I love sharing Positivity. I encourage You to always be Positive. Positivity pays. It's what we all need to achieve both personal and cooperate Success and Fulfillment. Develop a Positive Mindset. Build Positive Relationships. Have an open mind to Learn and Improve. Always seek to grow and be the best available Version of Yourself. Always Believe that You CAN!

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