Trust the Process

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So most times we wake up to feel a stark hollowness in our hearts.
It makes us question our role in this world and leaves us without a sense of belonging.
It makes us loose our genuineness, our personal convictions about life; because we feel our opinions trapped in the silly propositions of other people's ideology.
We doubt if they'll be an escape route out of our so-called bedeviled situation.

But here is what's best to do, TRUST THE PROCESS.



As Ralph Waldo Emerson cleverly pointed out, "to believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, - that is genius."

A man should learn to detect and watch that gleam of light which flashes across his mind from within, more than the firmament of bards and sages.

We should learn not to be mendicant about our current situation.

We should seek to abide by our spontaneous impression.

Ultimately we should learn to trust the process.

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