Give what you want to Get

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Credit: Courage Nkem

We waste so much mental energy complaining of every other thing people are not doing right for us; so much that we forget to ask what we really are doing for these people. We are so righteous in our little eyes. This attitude will stop us from getting the happiness and love that we really deserve.

Instead of asking, show love, and treat others the same way you want to be treated. And if you still feel short of love, maybe you should spread more love because we can't get what we can't give.

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