Forgiveness

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Forgiveness is the willingness to let go of the hurt. I've often heard people say that forgiveness is for the weak. So people let the pain they feel drive them on to revenge and all sorts of evil.

Ebubeoniso Zudonu

But relatively, forgiveness is for the strongest of men because they have come to the realisation that they love themselves too much to be drown in so much pain, sorrow, heartbreak, for another day.

The more You forgive, the more Joy You have and the more healthy You become. So the key to forgiveness is "Self Love". Self love is everything. Moreover what do you want to do with all that misery and heart break, Eat it?

Love Yourself today.
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